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Situationships" as Byproducts of Loneliness 

Updated: Feb 3, 2020

For the sake of companionship, some of us are entering into mostly unspoken agreements by where we exchange sex for companionship and some of us are subsequently exchanging companionship, for sex. This is why we feel so empty with our lovers.


This is why we are so miserable in our love connections. There is a lack of realness, depth, compassion, love and substance. The stuff that most human beings crave from others. Some of us are basically having a series of fleeting physical and emotional exchanges to satisfy our loneliness ( amongst other things).


This is a hard pill to swallow.


We are pouring pints of our love into teaspoons hoping that they will magically expand to accommodate our love and stir back into our cups, replenishing us. We endure abuse and neglect in exchange for slivers of attention, squirts of "feelings", and superficial moments of connectedness, instead of opening ourselves up to have real genuine experiences in love and compassion.


We are so afraid to feel something real. Afraid to be uncovered and discovered and connected... Im not sure if loneliness can be mastered, but I do know that there is value in mastering learning how to be alone. It is in our focused alone time, that we uncover and discover ourselves and fall in love with the beauty and magnanimity of who and what we are. Today, I hope that we have the strength to release what does not serve us. I hope that we choose ourselves again, first. The journey is long but the prize at the end ( which is you), is so sweet! 💜


P.S I love you! You deserve the BEST


Naz khalid

2/20/2019

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everettm55
everettm55
2020年2月27日

Thanks Queen!! I needed this.

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Drea LuVv
Drea LuVv
2020年2月11日

Learning to fall in luv with yourself thru the eyes of another is like trying to see your reflection in a foggy mirror 😔

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Tiarra's Love
Tiarra's Love
2020年2月10日

I’m just breaking out of this myself and That’s why I’m a big advocate for putting everything on the table up front. I need to know before even considering giving my number out. I refuse to allow myself to be in another situationship.

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未知的會員
2020年2月06日

Wow 🤯 This used to be me. Not anymore though. 🥰

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Carl Mitchell
Carl Mitchell
2020年2月04日

Pulling off the mask

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